Friendship Society – A New Blog about Friendship

by Eric West on January 30, 2013

It’s been a while since I’ve posted here.  Eden Journal has been a good blog, and it’s given me the opportunity to share a number of my thoughts about personal development and self improvement.  I hope that many of you have taken away some useful information to apply in your own lives.

Along the way I’ve developed my writing style and had a chance to collaborate with many great people.  I even teamed up with some fantastic bloggers to write a book about learning how to fall asleep.  It’s been great.

I have decided to narrow my focus and start a new blog.  I’ve long had a feeling deep inside that I need to focus on writing about friendships.  While the feeling has been there, the vision of what to create has been fuzzy.  At various stages over the last couple of years, the pieces have started falling into place.  It started with a domain name opening up, and just the other day a new blogging platform that I’ve been waiting for has opened it’s doors.  The time for me to take action is now, and so I have just opened the Friendship Society.

I’m just getting started, and the look isn’t very fancy yet, but I’m starting to write articles, and that’s really the important part of a blog.  The new blog platform has a nice clean look, and the best part it that it has a community feature that allows for improved communication between me and all my readers.  The community feature actually allows you to create your own posts.  That means you can share your own thoughts or ask your own questions and publish directly to the blog.

I’m not closing the doors on Eden Journal, but I will be shifting most of my attention to the Friendship Society.  Now it’s time to head on over and check it out.  Click here to go to FriendshipSociety.net.

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Know the Yoga Postures to Lose Weight

by Anna Miller on August 20, 2012

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A healthy and dynamic lifestyle is essential to keep the human body fit and active. When the calorie intake exceeds the calories utilized, then people tend to gain excess weight. With the exceeding weight, there are many health risks and diseases associated too. So a check on the body mass ratio and weight of an individual must be constantly maintained. Exercising and following a healthy diet is recommended for leading a healthy and fit lifestyle. A more refined and medieval form of exercising is Yoga. Having its roots in the ancient times, Yoga is considered as a natural exercise that is highly useful in the refining of body, mind and soul. [Continue Reading]

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5 Ways To Come Back From An Abusive Relationship

Unfortunately, abusive relationship are quite common. Whether they involve emotional abuse or physical abuse, abusive relationships can emotionally harm the abused person for many years to come. It is said that 1 out 4 women will be suffer from an abusive relationship at one time or another, and this is a sad and startling statistic. If you have been a victim of an abusive lover and you need to figure out how to extract yourself from the situation, here are 5 ways you can bounce back from the torment of an abusive relationship.  [Continue Reading]

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Book Review: Truth by Nina Yau

by Eric West on August 1, 2012

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Nina Yau writes in an inquisitive manner about deep philosophical topics.  Her blog, Castles in the Air, is full of posts that give you pause to think and consider.  Her latest book, Truth, continues this style to share what she views as the core truths in life.

Nina draws on both eastern and western philosophy, and I suspect also draws from many of her own observations.  Truth covers a very specific range of topics that are in essence the parts of life that are often on autopilot.  It’s the things we don’t think about every day, but really should.  It’s the things that would improve our life greatly if we took the time to consider them.

I’m not sure I’m painting a clear picture of what Truth is about.  Let’s just say that if you were given a handbook when you popped into existence on this planet, and that this handbook covered everything you would ever need to know about life, Truth would be Appendix A: Understand and Live by These Truths Always.  [Continue Reading]

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President Obama says you didn't build that

I typically don’t pay much attention to politics, but recently I saw a cartoon pop up on Facebook that didn’t seem to make sense.  It showed President Obama standing with the Wright Brothers, an image of their airplane behind them, and a quote saying “You didn’t build that.”

I looked at that cartoon and it didn’t make sense.  Maybe it’s because I don’t have a political axe to grind, but the quote just didn’t seem logical.  I did a little reading, and of course, it turns out the quote was taken out of context.  What did he really mean? [Continue Reading]

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The Intuition Principle is a book about intuition.  A typical intuition book covers the basics of how to awaken and use your own intuition.  I enjoy books like this, and that’s what I was expecting out of this book.  The Intuition Principle is so much more.  It goes much deeper than the typical book in this genre; discussing intuition as a guiding force in your life, giving guided meditations to practice, and discussing intuition’s place on a global scale.

I was actually a little put off at first.  Angela spends a lot of time in the first few chapters talking about finding and following your passion.  She discusses using your inner guidance to live your life purpose.  I wasn’t expecting this at all, and after having read a few “find your purpose / live your passion” books lately, I was a bit burned out on the topic.

I found that I had to reframe my expectations of this book and my concept of intuition.  The thing is, in order to truly follow your intuition you really need to be open to the idea that intuition is more encompassing than simply making small decisions on a daily basis.  It’s also about making major life decisions.  In fact, using intuition for major life decisions has a much greater impact, and is ultimately more useful than the small scale daily intuition that I’m used to. [Continue Reading]

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Expectations Lead to Anger and Dissapointment

by Eric West on July 11, 2012

Expectations Lead to Anger and Dissapointment

Have you ever been disappointed when someone or something didn’t meet your expectations?  I had an “aha” moment a few years back after reading a bunch of great reviews for a movie.  According to the hype it was to be the movie of the century.  Awesome… 5 stars… Amazing.

Unfortunately I came away disappointed.

This was really unfortunate because the movie was actually pretty good, it just wasn’t the movie of the century.  I was disappointed because the movie didn’t live up to the hype.  On that day I decided to give up reading movie reviews.

It wasn’t really the review that ruined it for me, it was my expectations.  My expectations were guided by the reviews, but ultimately it was my fault that I was disappointed.  I expected more than I should have and that led to my disappointment.

Expectations can also lead to anger.  This typically happen when your expectations involve other people.  You expect them to behave a certain way, and when they don’t you get angry.  This could happen when people don’t show up on time or if they let you down in some way.

Steve Pavlina just wrote a great post on the topic of disappointment that deserves a mention.  You should head over to his blog and check it out.

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Set Your Sleep on Autopilot - Learn how to fall asleep fast

You would think that sleep should come easily.  It’s something that we do naturally.  We have to sleep, yet many people struggle to fall asleep.  In a yearly survey conducted by the Sleep Foundation, about one-half of the respondents (51%) report failure to have “a good night’s sleep” every night or almost every night. Wow. Think about that. Half of the people surveyed have trouble sleeping.

39% experienced difficulty falling asleep at least a few nights per month, and 12% had difficulty every night. Falling asleep is a huge problem for many people.

I used to be one of those people.  I would lay in bed for hours waiting for sleep to arrive.  I knew I had to get some sleep in order to function throughout the day, yet I lay in bed and watched the minutes tick away.  My mind would race with thoughts of the day, worries, and plans for the future.  I had no way to turn off my thoughts so that I could get to sleep.  Sometimes my body would be restless, and I’d toss and turn while waiting for sleep.

One day it just clicked.  I had to learn how to fall asleep.  It seems silly to say it, but I didn’t know how to fall asleep.  Laying there waiting for sleep to arrive wasn’t working.  I needed a technique to fall asleep.  One fortuitous day I stumbled across a meditation technique.  I thought, “If this technique can put you in a deep state of relaxation, then maybe it would work good for sleep.”  Over the next few months I put that meditation technique into practice.  I improved upon the meditation and targeted it towards sleep.

Remarkably, I had taught myself how to fall asleep.  Over the months that followed, the time it took me to fall asleep fell dramatically.  Eventually, I became one of those people I always dreamed of.  I could fall asleep as soon as my head hit the pillow.

Last year I decided I wanted to document my technique in a book.  I knew my technique worked for me, but I also thought there may be other people like me that had discovered their own techniques.  I put out the call to all my contacts and blogger friends to see if anyone else had created their own sleep techniques.  I’m very excited to have found several other people that had either created their own techniques to fall asleep or had methods that helped them prepare for sleep.

I also wanted to test these techniques.  I knew they worked for us, but I wanted to make sure they were teachable and transferable.  I put out another call to all my contacts and found a few eager people to test these techniques.  They struggled with sleep, each in their own ways, and wanted to learn a way to fall asleep more quickly.

I anxiously waited during four weeks of testing.  The results – everyone saw improvement!  Success!  I had four solid techniques to fall asleep fast and test results proving they worked.  During my information gathering I also found factors to help your chances of success.  I had everything I needed to write the book.

The result is Set Your Sleep on Autopilot.  I’m looking forward to helping you learn how to fall asleep.  I want you to stop laying in bed waiting for sleep to arrive.  I want you to become one of those people that can fall asleep as soon as your head hits the pillow.  I want you to take control of your mind and body, and gently coax them into a peaceful slumber.

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Set Your Sleep on Autopilot Launches Tomorrow

by Eric West on June 20, 2012

Set Your Sleep on Autopilot - Learn how to fall asleep fast

My new book goes on sale tomorrow. In a yearly survey conducted by the Sleep Foundation, about one-half of the respondents (51%) report failure to have “a good night’s sleep.” I struggled with sleep in my youth until I stumbled upon a technique to coax my body and mind into a relaxing state of slumber. Judging by this survey and all the sleeping pill ads on TV, sleep is a big problem for many people.

Searching the Internet for sleep advice comes up short. You get advice like cut out the caffeine or don’t nap before bedtime. Well, yeah… that kind of stuff is pretty obvious.

What you really need are some solid techniques for falling asleep. In Set Your Sleep on Autopilot you’ll get four proven techniques for falling asleep. These techniques will help you relax your body and calm your mind so that you can drift off quickly and easily.

Check back tomorrow for more details and to order a copy of Set Your Sleep on Autopilot.

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Facebook Addiction Isn’t the Problem

by Eric West on June 5, 2012

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It’s easy to get sucked into cruising Facebook for all the latest status updates.  It’s easy to get excited about checking your email throughout the day.  It’s easy to stay absorbed in your iPhone or iPad for hours on end.

The addiction to all things digital is more and more common, but the addiction isn’t the problem, rather it’s a byproduct of the real problem.

The problem is… [continue reading]

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